Doers vs Feelers

Most entrepreneurs don’t do things according to priority. They do things according to how they feel. That’s how their day is run. (Which is exactly how babies live. They live from feeling to feeling. Do they feel like crying? Do they feel like laughing? Do they feel like peeing on themselves? That’s a babies life.)

“People can be divided into two classes:  those who go ahead and do something, and those people who sit still and inquire, why wasn’t it done the other way?” -Oliver Wendell Holmes

Entrepreneurs fall into two categories:  Doers and Feelers.

Doers do what needs to be done to reach a goal that they have set. They start work each day having already planned out what needs to be done to move them closer to accomplishing their goal.

Feelers on the other hand, do what they feel like doing. Feelers take their emotional temperature throughout their day, checking in on themselves, figuring out what they feel like doing right now. Their lives, their results, their financial circumstances are all determined by the changing of their feelings throughout the day.

Their feelings will change constantly, obviously, so its next to impossible for a feeler to follow through with anything to a successful completion. Their feelings are changed by everything from a bad stomach, an annoying call from a friend, a rude waitress,  the weather, a bit of a headache, even a thought. Those are the dictating forces of a feelers life.

A doer, an action taker, already knows in advance how much time will be spent placing ads, how much on the phone, how much on social media, how much studying, how much creating content, how much networking with other entrepreneurs. A doer understands his high priority money making activities, and structures his day around them.

Doers use a three-step system to guarantee success:

1. They figure out what they want to achieve (set a goal)
2. They figure out what needs to be done to achieve it
3. THEY DO IT!

This is NOT a theory, this is the actual observed system used by all super achievers and successful entrepreneurs without fail. Period.

A feeler is aimless in a mysterious life of unexpected consequences and depressing problems they create for themselves. Simply from BEING a feeler. A feeler asks, “Do I feel like placing ads right now?” “Do I feel like tweaking my funnel right now?” “Do I feel like writing that article right now?” “Do I feel like doing any work right now?” If the answer is no, then the feeler keeps going down the list, asking, “Do I feel like doing something else?”

Its all a ploy by the feeler to “feel” productive, to feel good.  Their day is not dedicated to getting anything done other than what they feel like doing.

A feeler lives inside that line of analysis all day long. They create a state of paralysis by analysis.

On the other side of things, a doer has a high self-esteem, and confidence on where his time is spent and the tasks he is working on. A doer enjoys all sorts of satisfaction throughout the day, even though some, if not most, are following some sort of discomfort.

A feeler is always trying to BE comfortable, but never really satisfied.

A doer knows the true, deep down joy that only life’s super achievers and successful entrepreneurs know.

A feeler believes that joy is for kids, and that life as an adult is an ongoing hassle. Perception is reality…

A doer understands that life is fun and games.

A doer experiences more and more power each and everyday as they build one success on the next.

Where as feelers continue to disempower themselves day in and day out with their lack of commitment and constant state of analysis, that they merely like to justify. Lets be honest, excuses are easy. You can have your story and an excuse, or you can have success…but you can’t have both.

Your ability to motivate and inspire others skyrockets when you play from the paradigm of a doer.

This is a simple concept of BE, DO, HAVE. You need to recognize WHO you are BEING on a daily basis. You need to “wake up” to how you are showing up in your business each and every day.

Are you a Doer or a Feeler?

The good news is, it’s simply a choice. Now that you are conscious of how you are showing up in your business and in your life, you can make the conscious choice to BE a Doer. To BE an action taker.

When you show up as a leader, a doer, an action taker. You will DO the things that leaders DO, and then you can HAVE the things, the results that leaders HAVE.

I am a recovering feeler.  If you know me you know I like to take all things to that next level. And I managed to do that as a feeler.  I was the worlds greatest excuse maker, and could take any situation, and justify my actions and the result.  I held onto those stories and that paradigm for years.  It wasn’t until I “woke up” to who I was BEING, and the stories and excuses I was creating that were doing nothing but holding me back.  Only then could I make the choice to become a DOER and move forward.

I made this choice just over a year ago when I woke up to my own reality.  Since then, I get to enjoy the life style of my dreams, and travel all over the world because of the skillsets i’ve developed and the actions I have taken as an online entrepreneur.

Its simple really, The Choice is Yours.

You can BE, DO, or HAVE anything you choose in this life.

Now that you know…are you going to choose to BE a Doer, or a Feeler?

By Kameron George

Kameron’s fresh approach to marketing has dramatically altered today’s work-at-home-arena. Kameron’s vision to destroy the paradigm of what is really possible in the home business and internet marketing industry “now” is what led to his co-founding of the award winning marketing group iGlobal Pros.

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